i had forgotten.
it surprises me that noticing something that’s missing can take such a long time; years even.
even more surprising when what’s missing is: self.
and not the proverbial, past version of ourselves that enjoyed ring-pops, nerds candy, sonic the hedgehog and folding paper notes and planes in classrooms that would become simultaneously our safe havens, wrestling arenas, boutiques, runways and church sanctuaries in our adolescence—our homes away from our homes.
not even the abstract self that we hope to be when the dust of life finally settles after we are done warring with all of the metaphorical forces that seek to shape us into the graven images that beckon us from behind our various sized glass windows—the ones in our pockets, living rooms and office spaces.
but the self that i think God made.
the self unaffected and untouched by all of the above.
the one that just feels right.
i almost forgot what it feels like to be me, and even being in this space again feels familiarly unfamiliar—like astronauts who retired from nasa missions long ago and have become accustomed to grounded life—the soils, sands and safety of the terrain providing stability—then being called upon for one last journey into the final frontier above the clouds and below the heavens—the coldness and darkness and wonder and brilliance of it all—filled with black holes and supernovas that share the vastness of the beyond and the 3 lb. mass between our temples…both being infinite, relatively.
gazing at the skies again,
and remembering,
feeling,
hurting,
smiling.
knowing they belong there—but don’t truly belong anywhere—especially not here.
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and even with all of the emotional tornadoes and monsoons inside their (my) heart in those moments of awe and thought…
…thankfulness bubbles up from inside like tiny geysers on the surfaces of fertile islands across distant oceans that are still undiscovered.
i bet you imagine them the same as i do.
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it’s ironic to apologize for a thank you, but, i feel that i must.
only because it’s the proper response for having a life returned to it’s owner—even if by chance and happenstance.
nothing is chance or happenstance.
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so, i’m sorry for thanking you so much.
but, thank you.
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unintentional acts of valor are still acts of valor.
even the ones performed by innocent bystanders standing aside and watching a tragedy unfold—
being there, uninvolved, capturing the moment in their net of awareness may cause them to go home and hug their child a little bit tighter tonight.
talk to their mother a little bit longer.
love our God a little bit deeper.
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when i thank you,
i suppose,
i’m actually thanking Him.
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…could you pass it on?